Not to generalize everyone, but from what I see...here are just a sample:
- a pretty, confident, smart, kind lady who majored in nursing. Two excellent guys approached her. She chose one over the other. Big mistake because the other guy was an obvious better choice. Ended up the first guy didn't want her either. Good thing is that she met the third guy a few years later and got married. Close call though because the first two guys are nothing but excellent and exceptional!
- my primary schoolmate, smart and cute. Dated many guys during her 20s and broke up with all of them. Decided to not date but play and have fun. Now approaching 30, she has no boyfriend and no prospect! In bad shape too, how sad.
- my ex: Stanford grad, MIT accepted her but refused to go :D Dated me for a few months. Broke up with me with not much of a reason. She's now attending seminary and don't think she is seeing anyone...also in bad shape. I think 27 for ABC is considered oldl!?
So, conclusion is that the smarter a girl, the worse a choice they make when it comes to relationships. Sad but true.
What I wanna say is: Guys need to be the decision-maker when it comes to dating and relationships. No exception.