I've learnt that I should not have any expectations on people. Even if I have a little of expectations, they will usually disappoint me.
People who are active and serve at church, they can be jerks. People who give wonderful prayers, they can be morons. People who is funny and seem to be liked by many people, they've a wicked way of treating others. People who seem confident, they are not. From my experiences spending time with people, I realized that people are so weak. People want to show others they are so well off and great but the more they do the more they show to others who they realyl are. It is usually the ugly side which will emerge from people. Very scary if you ask me. I am very tired of needing to deal with these people. But sometimes, because of circumstances I have no choice but to act like I care.
I think caring for the unlovely is so hard. Jesus can do it, I cannot not, yet. To be perfectly honest I'd rather spend time with the people I care or spend time alone. It is so much less stressful and so much more enjoyable!